One of the greatest blessings in marriage is to know your spouse deeply and intimately, including being aware of his or her strengths and weaknesses. Jessie Minassian, author of “Backwards Beauty,” encourages couples to cultivate the strengths of their spouse. She urges married couples to encourage each other to pursue their God-given gifts and dreams and be a cheerleader of each other, even through busy seasons of life. Philippians 2:4 says, “Let each of you look not only to his own interests,