Ella on Instagram: "Stop making yourself the victim of scenarios you’re making up in your head. 🤐👇 I had my “don’t talk to me” face on and a comeback loaded because I was convinced she was judging me. I was mid-argument in my head before she even opened her mouth. The Reality: She wasn’t judging. She loved the fit. We spend so much time “protecting our peace” that we actually end up creating our own chaos. We assume the side-eye is a personal attack because we’re stuck in our own insecurities.