You swear you sleep better when you drift off in your partner’s arms, while your sweetheart says spooning is more stress than it's worth. The heat. The accidental kicks. That you’re-smothering-me ...

A counseling client of mine, Rocco (not his actual name), playfully boasted to me that he is a "sensitive guy." I asked him what he was specifically referring to and he mentioned, "I try not to ...